Meet my father, diligently mowing my mother's lawn despite their divorce 28 years ago. My mom, grappling with bad knees, and my stepdad, who works out of town, couldn't manage the task. When my younger siblings curiously inquired, "Why is your dad mowing mom's lawn?" I explained, "Because she needed help, and he knew she couldn't do it herself, so he stepped in." This is what co-parenting looks like.
I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have four parents who not only respect each other but also understand that, in the grand scheme, demonstrating kindness and love for family is paramount. It doesn't matter how the family came together; what matters is the example set for the children, even those who are 32 years old.
My dad, overwhelmed by the attention this act of kindness has garnered, insists he's "no saint." He wants everyone to understand that one doesn't need to portray an angelic persona akin to a pastor during Lent. Instead, he advocates for choosing kindness whenever possible, showcasing that compassion and consideration can be a guiding principle in our interactions with others.
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